Have a question?

Go Ask Alice! has answered thousands of questions on health and well-being topics ranging from substance use to sexual health, to nutrition and physical activity.  

 

How to use Go Ask Alice!

Readers can explore anonymously submitted questions and the researched responses on Go Ask Alice!. Click into questions to review the response. While the question itself might not be the same as yours, the response may provide the answer you’re looking for. If you decide to submit your own question, consider checking out the editorial process to learn more about what to expect after you submit a new question. In the mean time, here are a few ways you can use our site!  

Learn more about Go Ask Alice!

Step 1

Just here to peruse?

Check out our health topics, learn about the workflow and who contributes, take a poll, and so much more! 

Browse All Topics

 

Step 2

Looking for something specific?

Search using key terms that describe what you’re looking for.  

Has your question been asked?

 

Step 3

Still can’t find an answer?

Ask a Question! Then review the editorial process to learn more about what to expect after making a submission. 

Ask a Question!

 

Recently Answered Questions

How can my long-distance girlfriend and I improve communication?

My girlfriend and I have been dating long distance for about seven months. I have found out through keen observation and affirmation from an old roommate of hers that she is a rape victim. For the last three months or so she has been going through a lot of changes with job acquisition, living conditions, and I don't know what else. In this time, communication between us has grown to an insignificant level (in my opinion). It seems as though she is putting her job, spiritual drive, personal life, etc before me. Almost to the point that she doesn't want to include me. I think this has something to do with the rape issue and her ability to trust people. I think she may be unable to believe that I could love her unconditionally.

I have been thinking my situation over and don't know what to do. I love her with all my heart but I am receiving virtually nothing from this relationship right now. Do I hold on to her and give her the space to come to grips with her life and hope that I will be in the big picture later on, or do I end it on the condition that she needs time for herself to decide if I am an important part of her future life? Please respond because I'm crawling out of my skin.

Reader’s Poll Center

Want to know what your fellow anonymous readers think about different topics? These polls provide a fun (anonymous!) way for our readers to learn and connect with each other over questions that aren’t always health and well-being related!

Previous Polls

Where would you love to celebrate Mardi Gras / Carnival?

Choices